How to Choose the Right Memorial Jewellery

How to Choose the Right Memorial Jewellery

Choosing memorial jewellery is deeply personal. There’s no "right" answer — only what feels most meaningful to you. Here's a gentle guide to help you decide.

What Feels Right to Wear?

Before you choose a design, take a moment to consider:

• Do you want something you can wear every day, or only on certain occasions?

• Would you prefer something close to the heart (like a pendant), or more discreet (like a charm or ring)?

• Do you want others to know you're wearing memorial jewellery, or would you prefer it to be quiet and private?

There’s no wrong answer. What matters is that it feels like you.

Which Material Matters Most?

At Ash Keepsakes, we use hallmarked sterling silver in every piece. It's a timeless, durable metal that suits everyday wear, and pairs beautifully with:

• Fine crystals for sparkle and light

• Glass or resin inlays to safely hold ashes or hair

• Minimal, unembellished designs for a classic look

Silver is chosen for its balance: not too bold, not too fragile. Just quietly beautiful.

What Would You Like to Include?

Memorial jewellery doesn’t just hold ashes. Many people choose to include:

• A small lock of hair

• A loved one’s handwriting or signature

• A fingerprint, cast or engraved

You can even combine two elements — for example, ashes and handwriting — into the same piece, or choose separate keepsakes for different family members.

A Few Things to Remember:

• You don't need to decide everything at once

• There is no rush, and no "right" timeline

• You can start with one piece and add more later

Some people choose a ring. Others a pendant. Some keep their jewellery in a box by the bed and never wear it at all. All of those choices are valid.

Still Unsure?

If you're not sure what to choose, you're not alone. Many people reach out with questions or ask for gentle guidance before deciding.

You're always welcome to get in touch or browse our full collection.

We're here to help you create something quietly meaningful — in your own time, and in your own way.